https://terrable.dev/tags/family/Recent content in Family on Terra FieldHugoen-usSat, 26 Sep 2020 00:57:30 +0000https://terrable.dev/2020/09/26/her-name-was-zoey/Sat, 26 Sep 2020 00:57:30 +0000https://terrable.dev/2020/09/26/her-name-was-zoey/<p>Last Saturday, my friend and metamour Zoey Frandsen (<a href="https://twitter.com/gayme_cube">Twitter</a>, <a href="https://www.facebook.com/zoey.frandsen.39">Facebook</a>) passed away unexpectedly at the age of 32. Zoey was a <em><strong>polyamorous, pansexual trans woman</strong></em>. There is now an obituary which deadnames her, treating her chosen, <strong>legal</strong> name as if it was some kind of nickname. There is a picture of her before she transitioned, with that same sad stare so many of us trans people have before we find our true selves. I don’t know that person, I never met them, and I know for a fact that is not how Zoey would want to have been remembered.</p>