We Are Not Offended

The full text of my October 6, 2021 thread, transcribed from my Twitter archive. ← Back to the post

Terra Field 🏳️‍⚧️ @RainofTerra · Oct 6, 2021

I work at @netflix. Yesterday we launched another Chappelle special where he attacks the trans community, and the very validity of transness – all while trying to pit us against other marginalized groups. You’re going to hear a lot of talk about “offense”.

We are not offended 🧵

Terra Field 🏳️‍⚧️ @RainofTerra

Being trans is actually pretty funny, if you’re someone who actually knows about the subject matter. How could volunteering for a second puberty not be funny? That isn’t what he is doing though. Our existence is ‘funny’ to him - and when we object to his harm, we’re “offended”.

Terra Field 🏳️‍⚧️ @RainofTerra

The problem is that people are responding to something we never said. We aren’t complaining about “being offended” and we don’t have “thin skin”. You try going to a pharmacy and having them call you “sir” in front of everyone while you pick up your estradiol. “Thin skin” 🙄

Terra Field 🏳️‍⚧️ @RainofTerra

What we object to is the harm that content like this does to the trans community (especially trans people of color) and VERY specifically Black trans women. People who look like me aren’t being killed. I’m a white woman, I get to worry about Starbucks writing “Tara” on my drink.

Terra Field 🏳️‍⚧️ @RainofTerra

Promoting TERF ideology (which is what we did by giving it a platform yesterday) directly harms trans people, it is not some neutral act. This is not an argument with two sides. It is an argument with trans people who want to be alive and people who don’t want us to be.

Terra Field 🏳️‍⚧️ @RainofTerra

This all gets brushed off as offense though - because if we’re just “too sensitive” then it is easy to ignore us. I’m surprised I haven’t had anyone call me (ironically) “hysterical” yet today.

Terra Field 🏳️‍⚧️ @RainofTerra

So who does this harm? Why don’t we go over the list of some people from the US who aren’t offended by Dave Chappelle’s special.

Terra Field 🏳️‍⚧️ @RainofTerra

Tyianna Alexander, a 28-year-old Black trans woman who was shot to death in Chicago on January 6th. Friends said she had “good energy”.

Tyianna is not offended.

Terra Field 🏳️‍⚧️ @RainofTerra

Samuel Edmund Damián Valentín, a trans man, was killed on January 9th in Puerto Rico. He wrote on January 1st about the new year to come and finding justice in it.

Samuel is not offended.

Terra Field 🏳️‍⚧️ @RainofTerra

Bianca “Muffin” Bankz, a Black trans woman, was shot to death in Atlanta, GA on January 17th. Said the founder of a local housing coalition: “Muffin was just blossoming into herself”

Bianca is not offended.

Terra Field 🏳️‍⚧️ @RainofTerra

Dominique Jackson, a Black trans woman, was shot to death in Jackson, Miss. on January 25th. She was remembered fondly by friends.

Dominique is not offended.

Terra Field 🏳️‍⚧️ @RainofTerra

Fifty Bandz, a 21-year-old Black trans woman, was shot to death in Baton Rouge on January 28th. On Facebook, one friend shared, “When are we as a community going to do something?!”

Fifty is not offended.

Terra Field 🏳️‍⚧️ @RainofTerra

Alexus Braxton, a 45-year-old Black trans woman, was killed on February 4th in Miami. Friends and advocates said her name as they released balloons to remember her life.

Alexus is not offended.

Terra Field 🏳️‍⚧️ @RainofTerra

Chyna Carrillo was killed on February 18th in New Wilmington, PA. She had just turned 25.

Chyna is not offended.

Terra Field 🏳️‍⚧️ @RainofTerra

Siblings Jeffrey “JJ” Bright, a 16-year-old trans boy, and Jasmine Cannady, a 22-year-old non-binary person, both from Ambridge, Pennsylvania, were killed on February 22. Jasmine loved to dance and “they cared deeply for their friends”

Jeffrey and Jasmine aren’t offended.

Terra Field 🏳️‍⚧️ @RainofTerra

Jenna Franks, a 34-year-old transgender woman, was killed in Jacksonville, NC in February. She was described as “a beautiful soul” and “a breath of fresh air”.

Jenna is not offended.

Terra Field 🏳️‍⚧️ @RainofTerra

Diamond Kyree Sanders, a 23-year-old Black transgender woman, was shot to death in Cincinnati on March 3rd. “Diamond was a traveler, known to be in New York City one week and New Orleans the following week”

Diamond is not offended.

Terra Field 🏳️‍⚧️ @RainofTerra

Rayanna Pardo, a 26-year-old Latina trans woman, was killed on March 17th in Los Angeles. A candlelight vigil was held in her name on March 20th.

Rayanna is not offended.

Terra Field 🏳️‍⚧️ @RainofTerra

Jaida Peterson, a 29-year-old Black trans woman, was killed on April 4 in Charlotte, NC. A vigil was held on April 9th to remember her.

Jaida is not offended.

Terra Field 🏳️‍⚧️ @RainofTerra

Dominique Lucious, a 26-year-old Black transgender woman, was shot and killed on April 8 in Springfield, Missouri. Dominique was a fan of the TV show “Empire.”

Dominique is not offended.

Terra Field 🏳️‍⚧️ @RainofTerra

Remy Fennell, a Black transgender woman in her 20s, was shot to death on April 15 in Charlotte, NC. Remy’s aunt said, “She was a vibrant young transgender woman who was just trying to make it & was doing it.”

Remy is not offended.

Terra Field 🏳️‍⚧️ @RainofTerra

Tiara Banks, a 24-year-old Black transgender woman, was killed in Chicago, Illinois on April 21, 2021. She was sitting alone in her car when the shooter approached her and shot her multiple times.

Tiara is not offended.

Terra Field 🏳️‍⚧️ @RainofTerra

Natalia Smut, a 24-year-old Black and Puerto Rican transgender woman, was killed on April 23 in Milpitas, California. Friends and community members organized a vigil for Natalia, with more than 100 people attending.

Natalia is not offended.

Terra Field 🏳️‍⚧️ @RainofTerra

Iris Santos, a 22-year-old Latinx transgender woman, was killed in Houston, Texas on April 23, 2021. Iris was sitting at a picnic table enjoying a meal when an unidentified suspect approached and shot her.

Iris is not offended.

Terra Field 🏳️‍⚧️ @RainofTerra

Tiffany Thomas, a 38-year-old Black transgender woman, was killed on April 24 in Dallas, Texas. Tiffany is being remembered as someone who had a “big heart,” who was “funny” and “stayed laughing.”

Tiffany is not offended.

Terra Field 🏳️‍⚧️ @RainofTerra

Keri Washington, a 49-year-old Black transgender woman, was killed on May 1 in Clearwater, Florida.

Keri is not offended.

Terra Field 🏳️‍⚧️ @RainofTerra

Jahaira DeAlto, a 42-year-old transgender woman, was killed on May 2 in Boston, Mass. She was a well-known and beloved transgender advocate, advocate for survivors of domestic and sexual violence, and member of the ballroom community.

Jahaira is not offended.

Terra Field 🏳️‍⚧️ @RainofTerra

Whispering Wind Bear Spirit, a 41-year-old Indigenous non-binary person, was shot in York, Pennsylvania on May 3 and died early on May 4. They were remembered as “a beautiful and kind soul”.

Whispering Wind is not offended.

Terra Field 🏳️‍⚧️ @RainofTerra

Sophie Vásquez, a 36-year-old Latina transgender woman, was shot and killed in Georgia on May 4. She is remembered as “the kindest person on the planet” and as someone who was “truly beautiful inside and out.”

Sophie is not offended.

Terra Field 🏳️‍⚧️ @RainofTerra

Danika “Danny” Henson, who also went by Pryynce Daniel and Niia Da Don on Facebook, a 31-year-old Black transgender woman, was shot and killed in Baltimore, Maryland, on May 4. Henson also may have identified as genderfluid.

Danika is not offended.

Terra Field 🏳️‍⚧️ @RainofTerra

Serenity Hollis, a 24-year-old Black transgender woman, was shot and killed in Albany, Georgia, on May 8. Her mother asked for justice for her.

Serenity is not offended.

Terra Field 🏳️‍⚧️ @RainofTerra

Oliver “Ollie” Taylor, a 17-year-old trans boy, died on May 19 after being kidnapped and shot on May 12 in Gervais, Oregon. His high school held a vigil to remember Oliver on May 20.

Oliver is not offended.

Terra Field 🏳️‍⚧️ @RainofTerra

Thomas Hardin, a 35-year-old Black transgender woman, was killed on May 2 in York, South Carolina. According to local news, friends have shared that Hardin “identified as a woman,” continued to use the name Thomas and used both he and she pronouns.

Thomas is not offended.

Terra Field 🏳️‍⚧️ @RainofTerra

Poe Black, who also went by Oliver Jackson and Legion, was a 21-year-old transgender man who was killed in Niland, California in an area called Slab City, in early May. Poe often posted about disability rights and Black Lives Matter on social media.

Poe is not offended.

Terra Field 🏳️‍⚧️ @RainofTerra

EJ Boykin, who also went by Novaa Watson, was killed in Lynchburg, Virginia on June 14. He had just recently celebrated his 23rd birthday on June 10 and was studying at Morgan State University. It appears EJ was also the parent of a young child.

EJ is not offended.

Terra Field 🏳️‍⚧️ @RainofTerra

Aidelen Evans, a 24-year-old Black transgender woman, was found dead in March in Port Arthur, Texas. Initially investigated as suspicious, as of July, her death is being investigated as a homicide.

Aidelen is not offended.

Terra Field 🏳️‍⚧️ @RainofTerra

Taya Ashton, a 20-year-old Black trans woman, was killed in Suitland, Prince George’s County, Maryland on July 17. According to social media, friends and family held a vigil and balloon release to remember Taya.

Taya is not offended.

Terra Field 🏳️‍⚧️ @RainofTerra

Shai Vanderpump, a 23-year-old Black trans woman, was killed in Trenton, New Jersey, on July 30. According to Garden State Equality, Shai was “a fierce LGBTQ advocate.”

Shai is not offended.

Terra Field 🏳️‍⚧️ @RainofTerra

Tierramarie Lewis, a 36-year-old Black transgender woman, was killed in Cleveland, Ohio on June 12. Due to misgendering and misnaming from local officials and a lack of media coverage, her death was not reported until recently.

Tierramarie is not offended.

Terra Field 🏳️‍⚧️ @RainofTerra

Miss CoCo, a 44-year-old trans woman of color, was killed in Dallas, Texas on August 7, 2021. According to Nu Trans Movement, she was “a well-known small girl with a big, bubbly personality. CoCo was a happy person and proud to be living her truth!”

Miss Coco is not offended.

Terra Field 🏳️‍⚧️ @RainofTerra

Pooh Johnson, a 25-year-old Black trans woman, was killed in Shreveport, Louisiana on August 23, 2021. Johnson was an accomplished makeup artist under the name Titanizer.

Pooh is not offended.

Terra Field 🏳️‍⚧️ @RainofTerra

Disaya Monaee, a 32-year-old Black transgender woman, was fatally shot in Chicago, Illinois on September 6.

Disaya is not offended.

Terra Field 🏳️‍⚧️ @RainofTerra

Briana Hamilton was a 25-year-old Black transgender woman who was fatally shot in Chicago, Illinois. On social media, her mother described her as an “amazing person who touched so many people hearts with her presence and her memory will forever live on.”

Briana is not offended.

Terra Field 🏳️‍⚧️ @RainofTerra

Kiér Laprí Kartier, a 21-year-old Black transgender woman, was fatally shot in Arlington, Texas on Sept. 30, 2021. Her friends remembered her on social media as a “very strong, independent person” who “always had my back through thick and thin.”

Kiér is not offended.

Terra Field 🏳️‍⚧️ @RainofTerra

38 members of our community who are dead because our society devalues trans people and trans experiences. 38 people who just wanted to be themselves. 38 people in so many cases struggled with not having the means to transition the way they wanted to, but did it anyway.

Terra Field 🏳️‍⚧️ @RainofTerra

These are the people that a callous disregard for the lives of trans people in our society have taken from us, and they all deserved better.

Terra Field 🏳️‍⚧️ @RainofTerra

That these 38 people died for the crime of being themselves? That actually does offend me.

Terra Field 🏳️‍⚧️ @RainofTerra

Thanks to @HRC for compiling and maintaining this miserable list, which I’m sure will have more names soon.